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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't blame you for feeling upset.  What I find somewhat distasteful is the way you discount her reasons for getting pregnant (she went off the pill because it ruined her skin -- is that not a valid reason for wanting to go off the pill?  she continued to have sex -- oh my god, what a whore!  She didn't want to spend the money on an IUD -- so what?)

OP, stop marginalizing her.  It's okay to feel uncomfortable around her but it's not okay to depict her as some kind of valueless dingbat tightwad trollop.[/quote]

Well, no, I understand this.  I've known plenty of people who basically refused to use any form of BC, got pregnant (duh!) and then acted all surprised and indignant that it had happened.  It was like, hello?  Did you not take sex ed in school?  Unprotected sex in your 20's = baby a large percentage of the time.  This is basic.  And I am staunchly pro-choice, but I do judge people like this for being stupid as hell and having fucked up priorities.  So it's more "convenient" to have an abortion than it is to use a condom?  WTF?  Anyone with any self-respect will go out of their way to avoid ever having an unplanned pregnancy or an abortion.[/quote]

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