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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I feel your pain. Same boat here. We both work f/t (me longer hours since I work at night), but I handle nearly everything else, from researching and applying for schools to paying each and every bill, handling taxes, our finances, investments/debts, and filing insurance claims to cooking meals, organizing closets, playdates, doctor's appointments, and picking up DH's ties and socks everywhere. He does grocery shopping and doing 50 percent of the bedtimes and bathtimes and maybe 25 percent of the dishes. I do everything else, though we have a cleaning service for deep cleaning. I was okay with this with one kid, since on the weekend I would at least get to the gym or sleep in for at least one of those days, but with two little ones I never, ever get a break, unless I am going to the dentist. I have become angry and depressed and short with everyone. I have pleaded with DH to do more, which works for like a day, and then falls apart. I love my kids, starting to hate my life and the worst part is that DH isn't lazy, just incompetent. I should see a therapist but I literally have no time. If I had a free 2 hours a week, maybe I wouldn't need a therapist. [/quote]
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