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[quote=Anonymous]Keep in mind you can do two thing at once.

On the one hand, prep as people have suggested (LAWYER!) and "get your finances in order."

On the other hand, do what you need to do in terms of your marriage.  try couseling, try a separation, mourn your marriage, support your child.  Give him a little freedom for his lovely life, but also take time away - go away for the weekend and have him recognize what custody on his own time will be like, solo parenting for the weekend.  There's a theory that you shouldn't cling onto the marriage.  You go a little private, a little pulled way, make him wonder what you are up to, and maybe, who knows, this will be temporary and he will find his way back (where you may or may not decide to keep working on the marriage).  Let it be uncomfortable for him, don't rescue him, let him see what it would be like.

But while you are doing all that, prepare like crazy for a potential divorce and protect yourself, your assets, and your child.  [/quote]

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