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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’re a dressy family. If a girlfriend wore jeans to Thanksgiving[b] I would tell my DS to make sure she knew the dress code for the next event.[/b] My DS might cluelessly handle it the same way. So I don’t necessarily think this is giant red flag territory. Maybe it is, but there’s a chance she needs to decide if she’s ok being in a dressy family (because it’s going to be that way for every picnic and holiday forever), dressing that way, and it’s never an issue again. [/quote]

Or just... take people as they come?  I can't imagine setting a dress code for a family event in my home.[/quote]

No, we’re going to continue with collared shirts and belts for holidays.  No jeans, no tshirts. Church clothes for church.  It’s important to me. Doesn’t have to be to you. I 100% realize how snotty this sounds, but it’s the norm for our friends, too. Someone can chose or not chose to marry into a family like this. I think my DC will be end up marrying into this someday, based on their current friend’s families. [/quote]

Someone can also CHOOSE to marry into a family that's less snotty about clothing but knows how to spell.[/quote]

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