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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he does not value what SAHMs do. And being a SAHM married to a man who doesn't value it is pretty hellish. He'll treat you like his errand girl, he'll be condescending, and he'll say you're boring to justify his cheating. In the divorce you'll get assets and maybe a little alimony but building your earning capacity with a weak resume in your 40s is an absolute nightmare. I would continue being up-front about what you want, but educate yourself about money and stop saying dumb stuff about how things were in the 90s. And really, really consider whether conservative men are worth the tradeoffs. Some of them won't *say* what they really think, but what they really want is submission and obedience and lots and lots of control.[/quote]
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