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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Being transparent..

I've done this before. Sometimes my silence is just the time I need to process and move on.

Therapy assisted greatly. Essentially it's harder to get over and move on from things ..

I'm working on  it.. All I got DCUM

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As long as you’re honest with them. “I’m not silent to hurt you; I’m still processing. I love you and I’m just working through my feelings.”

Otherwise you’re using your silence as a weapon. [/quote]

I'm very honest about it .. Appreicate your thoughtful response too.

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I think this type of handling is okay if the "processing" and refusal to interact is a couple hours.  If it goes on for multiple days as OP is describing, it doesn't really matter if you were honest about it 3 days ago.[/quote]

OP here. Yes, he will let me know right away he’s upset and I know he’s processing. But it goes on day after day. If it’s a few hours, totally reasonable.

[b]I honestly am so much happier when he’s not around. I don’t want to be near him. I just want peace.[/b] [/quote]

If this is so bad, why don't you leave him?[/quote]

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