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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pretend he’s not there when he does this. He sounds depressed.[/quote] Some of you have probably not been on the other side of a relationship with a person like this. I don't think it's depression. Step 1: Beg and plead and cajole and keep trying to get the person to talk to you. Try to "fix it". Most sane people stop doing this after a while. Step 2: Pretend you don't care/don't notice the person is giving you the silent treatment but feel bad about it and uncomfortable in what is supposed to be safe space in your life. This can last a long time and feels bad. And then the blessed Step 3: You don't have to pretend anymore. You actually do not care. You stop thinking about the person at all and forget about them for long stretches of time until they appear for some reason. Oh you again. They have zero emotional space in your brain.[/quote]
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