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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there is probably a lot more to it. She enjoys the comfort of her ex-H house and the dogs and also wants a new relationship. I think she is playing both sides and that shows her dishonesty. [/quote]

What’s dishonest about it? She’s not lying to anyone.

OP I think this entirely depends on what you want out of a relationship. You are presumably in your mid-40s too at least so I assume you are not looking to have kids or feeling like you need to have a wedding soon. Once you are in your 40s you have longstanding ties to people in your past and this is just one variety of it. Is it clean and clear? Not really, but life is not really that way. Of course your are totally entitled to want to date someone who doesn’t have any ties to an ex, but given that most people your age have significant exes, I’m not sure how realistic that is. Also only you can say how you feel about the rest of the relationship (which you did not mention at all). It is perfectly possible for her to maintain these ties with her ex (because of the shared pets and kids) and still be attached to you as well. [/quote]

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