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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who IDENTIFIES the problem or need (for home or family member)? Who COMMUNICATES the issue to the other family members)? What happens then? Problem solving and planning? Nothing? Who takes the EFFORT to fix the problem or need (either DIY or manage a staff or repairers in or doctor)? Who has the SENSE to fix things in an efficient and correct way (not make more mess or setbacks or guess/pretend to know what to do)? [/quote] Why are you YELLING at us?[/quote] That’s basic Ooda loop decision making- that’s who solves problems people who ID the issue, make the time to address the issue, and are smart /common sense to bough to fix it correctly the first time. Anyhow, my spouse avoids all non-office and non-external people pleaser responsibilities. So all those steps fall on me and increasingly on our parentified tweens. [/quote]
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