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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lesson for men: just lie.[/quote]

Yes, unreservedly. No matter how your wife looks on your wedding day you tell her she’s the most stunning, radiant bride you’ve ever seen. A beautiful princess, an earth angel. Glowing goddess.

Every woman deserves that reaction. Even if she crashed her bike the day prior and has a huge gash on her face. Or a tremendous pimple. Or a bad sunburn. Or a dress in a different style than you expected.

There is no reason to be mean to the woman marrying you on your wedding day. It will only paint you, yourself, in a bad light. [/quote]

This. Men need to understand the pressure women are under on their wedding day. It's what the groom feels x1000000. It's social expectations, family expectations, your friends, your fiancé, his family, and then your own expectations from years of thinking about it because girls are encouraged to think about their wedding day from toddlerhood whether they want to or not. It's a lot.

Show up for her, she's under siege. And if you have kids, get ready to do it again because that comes with all the same baggage for women, at least when it's the first pregnancy/baby. [/quote]

All of this, plus it’s the first ever social event that you have planned, and it’s massive and extremely expensive and you are like 28.  Before my wedding, the only social event I had ever planned was a house party that involved a keg and red solo cups.  And somehow, with this experience, I was supposed to plan a black tie event for 200.

Eff anybody who doesn’t support the bride on her wedding day.  Especially the groom.  If you have thoughts or opinions on how things could have been different, keep them to yourself.  
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