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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recognize you, OP. Do you ever get tired of beating the same bush. Either cut them off or stop talking about it. I'm guessing you are as obnoxious to them as they are to you. I know you try my nerves and I just have to see your posts about this on occasion. [/quote]

Not OP but why do you read posts that try your nerves? Do you ever get tired of doing this to yourself? You are obnoxious. [/quote]

Basically, I wonder why people have to post repeatedly about the same thing. It's as if they have a massive victim mentality and get attention with their "problems" here. If they really wanted to solve their issues they would get help. It is rarely a one-side issue. But OP and people like her are getting attention by posting repeatedly on the same issue. And that's what they want. Attention. A version of Münchausen syndrome.

Doesn't it actually help if they get a reality check that maybe they are part of the problem? [/quote]

You are nuts. Totally nuts. It's not the same people posting about problems with family. Just because you haven't experienced such problems doesn't mean they don't exist. [/quote]

Many times there are identifying items that show the difference between posters. Whatever the case, you have no idea what my relationship is with my family. Moreover, OP can cut her family off or not. So can you. That isn't the issue. It's simply a matter of stating that so many people, shown so clearly here on DCUM, think their perspective is the only one. There are always more than one POV. That doesn't mean that the OP or anyone like her needs to do anything differently. Just that to so adamantly state that their assessment is definitive is incorrect. That's all I'm saying.[/quote]

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