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[quote=Anonymous]FFS, people! I'm divorced and planning to attend DC's graduation ceremony in June of this year. ExH made all tuition payments from a combo of the 529 that already existed when we divorced, and additional money he contributed post-divorce, as agreed to in the settlement agreement. The fact that maybe-kinda-perhaps-sorta I couldn't have enforced this if he'd later balked at it has had ZERO bearing on how it all played out. We talked this through very thoroughly during the negotiations and we both complied with the terms we agreed to. Focus on what you want to have happen and come to an agreement with your STBX.

If you're worried he might change his mind later, communicate about the college clause with your mutual friends and with his family members so that there is accountability from someone besides just a judge. If you and his parents have discussed the fact that you've agreed to split college costs 50/50 or whatever, and they know that he signed and agreed to that, it will be that much harder for him to renege on it. Believe it or not, most people comply with what they agreed to do even if they could wiggle out of it in court.

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