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[quote=Anonymous]I was in this situation with my dad and my own mom (not step mom). All you can do is make sure the social worker, etc know the wishes and have a copy of the documents. My mother was delusional. Dad was clearly at the end and ready to go and she insisted on keeping him alive suffering even though she resented him every second even with 24-7 care. She didn't seem to like him much before his decline, but that's another story. It wasn't even like she insisted on being by his side. She refused recommendations, kept him alive suffering and we were the ones visiting. She would show up once a day for 20 minutes if that. She just could not face reality, and they kept sending in different people to explain to from social worker to physician to explain to her and each time they would look at me and ask, "where is your mother?" [/quote]
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