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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have to tell you, i wouldn't deal with this well. He doesn't respect you. [/quote]
Yeah, that’s what I’m coming to grips with.

FWIW, I think he may be on the spectrum. I’m not using this to dismiss or judge or whatever, I am not neurotypical myself… hence the SN kid.[/quote]
no, you said the issue wasn't there earlier on.  So, he's not on the spectrum.   I think this is a cop out for you to accept the way he is.

He's a jerk.

For the most part, DH's view is "happy wife, happy life".  Of course, he doesn't agree with me on everything, but if I ask him to do something, most of the time he will.

I will say that there was a recent situation where he didn't want to do something for our 16 yr old because he thought it was not necessary, but she and I agreed that it would make her feel safer. It wasn't a huge deal. It would've taken maybe 5min to do it, but he put up such a fuss saying it wasn't necessary. I think it was because he thinks by doing so, we are playing into her anxiety.  I got really mad at him, and when he (reluctantly) came up to do this thing, I told him angrily to forget it, that I would do it.  I also think he is getting lazier in his old age.

Maybe your DH is feeling like my DH where he feels you are catering too much towards your SN kid?   You guys need to get on the same page, or you will just have to own doing most of the things for your kid.

The house thing I totally disagree with your DH on.[/quote]

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