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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]3 years into a relationship. We live together, moved in after 18 months. I am already feeling burnt out. He does a lot around the house but the mental load is the hard part. I have to initiate everything - I taught him how to get a credit card, save for retirement, increase his income, get a therapy and get him diagnosed for adhd, etc. I am realizing that I will be leading and he will be dragging. We are in our 40s, he’s actually older than me. Will it ever improve?[/quote] If you two were in your late 20's or even early 30's, I would say there is hope. However in 40's there is little hope. Unless you consider it a bargain for whatever he does and having his companionship, you need to decide if its worth it without trying to change an almost midlife man and making both of your lives difficult. [/quote]
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