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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to be in joint counseling now. stat. Do you have health insurance? can you find someone who takes your insurance? if not, do you have a faith?  someone of the clergy you can go to jointly? You probably should see someone on your own too--perhaps someone else on this board can help you with that, but what strikes me is that your wife is still 'trying to be friends' with this guy. If she wants to save the marriage, she has to cut off all contact ASAP, you need to explore things in counseling together and she needs to figure out why this fantasy/escape is so powerful to her.

I'm so sorry. So painful. Maybe this will lead to some serious discussions and change in your marriage so that it will ultimately be strengthened but not without a lot of painful work. Also, can you take a day or two off from your child, have your wife stay home? Maybe a little time on your own would be helpful. see a friend, family, etc. [/quote]

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She wants to go to couples therapy, but I first need to figure out if I even want to continue a relationship with her. That's why I'm looking for individual counseling. I checked with my insurance and they will cover the visits. I was surprised because I used to work for Blue Cross in another state and we didn't cover couple's therapy or marriage counseling. We only offered a 20% discount on approved providers, so I assumed it was like that across the board.

Now she says she'll cut off contact with him even though she'll "always love him, but isn't in love with him." I don't believe you can be ready to leave your family Saturday morning and three days later have a complete change of heart, but I guess that's what the therapy is for. She may take a few days off, but I don't really have anywhere to go if she did. [/quote]

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