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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Married 11 years with 4 children. My husband comes first. As others have said, the love for your spouse and children is totally different and equally as strong, [b]but I still place my husband's needs first[/b]. [/quote]

this is so bizarre.  So, if your infant or toddler is crying because they fell and got hurt and need you.  And your husband is asking you to clean off his cut and get him a bandaid - you're going to put your husband's needs above your child's?  Crazy and I feel sorry for your kids.

For those of you talking about sex (or lack of sex) as an indicator of putting your kids' needs above your DH's or your DH's needs above your kids' needs.  You are thinking of it wrong.  Those that say I put my DH before kids because I have sex with him are really saying they are putting their DH's needs above their own - not above their kids.  Same with those who say their kids come first because they don't have sex with DH.  No, you are putting your OWN needs above (or below) your DH's.  NOT your kids' needs.  they go to bed.  You either sleep (or clean house) or have sex with DH -

so really answer the question.  In what order do you put everyone's needs.  DH's kids and your own.  If you REALLY answer honestly, you will ALL say your kids' needs are tended to first and formost. [/quote]

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