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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this situation pretty much exactly with my family money used for downpayment among other things. We split everything 50/50, including retirement. He pays me child support though since he makes more- that's the only difference.[/quote] NP and curiosity question: once the retirement accounts are essentially marital (even if each party brought different amounts in pre-marriage), is it even worth doing the tracing if there's a substantial difference in total amount? I can't tell if this will just make an already contentious and acrimonious situation - with one very unreasonable party - even worse. [/quote] Not sure what you mean by doing the tracing. But we got married very early in our careers so we didn't come into the marriage with big retirement accounts. [/quote] Looking at exactly how much you had with statements right before marriage is enough for “tracing.” If it was not significant and neither person had substantially more it probably isn’t even worth looking into. [/quote]
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