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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this situation pretty much exactly with my family money used for downpayment among other things. We split everything 50/50, including retirement. He pays me child support though since he makes more- that's the only difference.[/quote] NP and curiosity question: once the retirement accounts are essentially marital (even if each party brought different amounts in pre-marriage), is it even worth doing the tracing if there's a substantial difference in total amount? I can't tell if this will just make an already contentious and acrimonious situation - with one very unreasonable party - even worse. [/quote] We kept our own and did not do the math. We both had something decent upon getting married. There was a discrepancy, but it wasn’t worth the fight.[/quote]
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