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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents are about your age, OP, and my mom passed, and my dad remarried a 56-year-old woman; I wouldn't want to deal with her either.  56 is too young for my early seventies dad; a woman that young would only date him for money.  I especially wouldn't want to have to deal with her during his end-of-life care.  Happy to do it for my parents if they are married to each other or single and widowed, but with a new spouse in the way?  No. [/quote]

This. OP you need to understand you are proposing to make your family much more complex. Working around a whole stepfamily situation for every visit, and making the end of life immensely more difficult. Don't be so oblivious as to think it's all about your happiness and doesn't affect others. It does. And you don't seem very happy with this woman anyway.

Nobody wants a stepmother who yells nasty things and then lies about it. It seems like the two of you are alike in your lack of common sense self-control, but that's not a good thing. Break up and find someone better. And be better. [/quote]

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