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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anything 😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though. [/quote]

Stop being a curmudgeon.  If you are at a point in your relationship where dinner with your spouse and a glass of wine is a special event and not a “good way to end a Tuesday,” then you REALLY need to go out.  
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I have the feeling that they are forbidding him from getting anything because they aren’t going to get anything anyway, and it helps them save face to themselves.[/quote]

Which is fine. I don't know why you guys are so hung up on doing something for Valentine's Day. It's just one made-up celebration. You can have a very low-key day to mark the occasion, or do nothing at all.

Separately, no one "needs" to get out. Maybe you need to get out, but other people don't. You two need to stop believing that everyone else should live the lives that you lead. Everyone is different, and that's OK.

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I’m going to disagree.  [b] I think you are a bad parent if you show your kids that married people don’t do anything romantic on Valentine’s Day, [/b]and that parents don’t leave the house other than to go to kid’s various events.

If you make being an adult with a family look like a boring slog,[b] your kids aren’t going to want to grow up.  [/b]
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NP. This is one of the dumbest takes I’ve seen on here, and that’s saying something.

If you were saying “parents who never show love or do anything romantic”, ok. But…you’re a bad parent if you don’t celebrate a made-up Hallmark holiday? You sound like a f-ing moron.

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Every holiday is made-up. This one part of the culture we all live in.

And I honestly don’t believe that you are regularly romantic with your spouse, but you decided a month ahead of time that you won’t do anything for Valentine’s Day.  
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