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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]yikes. if she took a spray of perfume or used your conditioner to wash her hair, fine. but taking stuff with her is weird and cheap and a potential sign of mental illness.

she sounds like my sister

she has stolen a camera, artwork, hair things, etc.

she has issues. you dont want to deal with this for your lifetime.

I'm more concerned about your boyfriend's reaction. he should be pissed and telling her to cut it out.

I'd seriously consider breaking up because of this.[/quote]

OP — He does say she’s like this with everyone (can come across as entitled to others’ belongings and time), that it’s only been happening since November (around when she started coming over), and that she’s still pretty much a kid who will grow out of it. He’s also fairly non-confrontational and worries she might react strongly, so his instinct has been to keep the peace rather than confront her. I’m considering whether to let it go and give her some grace, give her another chance (the possibility of involving her parents did stop the drinking, though I haven’t used that approach for the other items), or to end it.[/quote]

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