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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I love him. We’ve been dating a year and a half. I don’t think love is enough to make marriages work though. It’s a good start. I’m concerned him being inflexible and other ADHD symptoms will wear me down over time. He gets treatment but the symptoms are still there.[/quote] Yea, the "messy, stubborn/inflexible" would worry me, especially after having kids. The mess will be tripled after having kids, and you will be the one to clean up after both. A relationship requires compromise, and if he's inflexible, that would be a warning sign. People are more accommodating with each other in the early stages of a relationship, but after a while, what was once a cute quirk becomes a huge PIA. -married 22 years. [/quote]
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