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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, dont worry. If you were both regular parents, 50/50 is the likely scenario. His family might try to turn the child against you. You have to be a supportive parent through that. Chinese daughter here and it is a thing for Chinese mothers to manipulate the children emotionally against the other parent. My mother used us as weapons in her unhappy marriage. The end result being adult children who realized her toxicity and set up strong boundaries. The Chinese have a tendency to live through their progeny and there is very unhealthy enmeshment. You will have to provide a healthy model for parenting. And they need to respect and help develop the autonomy of the child. The latter is definitely not a Chinese parenting style but too bad, they chose to immigrate here so they need to accept the outcome of their choices.[/quote]
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