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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - this is your presentation of yourself, and how you feel about yourself. As an accomplished professional. And you meet the men who look at you as a potential employee for the job - caring for him

You need to engage your feminine energy more, and start feeling yourself feminine. How often do you have sex, think about sex, buy new bathing suits and dresses, change your hair color? Can you discuss sexual preferences on date 3-4 when time is right?

I have a different issue: I mostly have very intense sexual relationships with men my age, but can't fall into them as I need the next partner not to be bored. I was married for 19 years and gate being tied up to a specific man, confined to anything besides what I want. [/quote]
Jesus, log off already. Whoever OP attracts by changing herself so dramatically will end up making her miserable or resenting her as who she really is eventually comes out.[/quote]

It’s not about changing herself. HER SELF is an office professional. 
Other women (who might be no less accomplished) identify themselves as feminine sexual beings in the first place. It’s great to be high achieving but it shouldn’t be the main focus of her personal  story at these dates . 
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Whatever matters to her most absolutely should be what she leads off with. Any man who can't handle that or who resents that is going to be a waste of her time. People like you need to stop giving advice on how to land the man of [i]your[/i] dreams and stop focusing on what other people actually need.

The man OP is looking for will find it breathtaking how dedicated she is to her achievements and how far she has come in her career. He'll be excited at the thought of bringing his work ethic to the dynamic and knowing he's found a kindred spirit to work hard and play hard with.  He's the type who is turned off by women who don't take themselves seriously enough and who think setting and accomplishing goals is for younger people.[/quote]

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