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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cant bear to stay with my cheating spouse anymore, and am working on gathering documents for separation. I am scared to death just thinking of this transition (together for almost 3 decades), and although I have a lawyer, I just dont know how to prepare emotionally-also considering I will be with the kids (older teens-one in college). My therapist pointed out i am trying to talk myself out of it. I am prepared to take a financial hit but the emotional hit scares me. I dont have any family around to lean on, but do have a decent federal job. [/quote] I feel you. I don’t love my wife anymore. She’s refused intimacy for years. My therapist tells me I need to do it for my mental health but with a kid that has health issues and needs to be monitored, separating is problematic. I simply don’t know what to do or when. I really dislike my situation [/quote]
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