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[quote=Anonymous]Focus on the big picture. Get clear on what you need, what you value and what you want from this point going forward, independent of your spouse and the life you built. Doesn’t mean to abandon it, rather look at it with fresh eyes and make decisions to continue or change. Allow yourself space to truly grieve, moving through the emotions that arise. Don’t avoid them, treat them as waves. So much time and resources get wasted on blaming and trying to get even. Don’t get sucked into it, let the feelings pass and keep your eyes on the big picture. [/quote]
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