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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]An anecdote about this. Told by a long married, older neighbor. She told her long term boyfriend, "I want to be married to you. But if you don't want to be married, I need to be dating other people." And she did. And no longer saw him. He had some months experiencing this new normal, evaluated his feelings and intentions and proposed marriage.

This is what I would suggest to young women. Women who do want to be married. If you don't want to be married that's ok too. But if you do, it's not exactly an ultimatum. It's just stating the truth. I can't be devoted to you, for any longer, if you're not wanting to be married.[/quote]

I'm not that old, and this is basically what happened with my now husband.  After two years of dating, I was like, I really like you, and we have a lot of fun together, and I hope we can remain friends, but I'd like to start dating other people because I'm hoping to find someone who wants to get married and start a family.  He proposed the next night.  Some men are just clueless with no ill intentions. [/quote]

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