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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wish people would name the toxic clubs and coaches so other people could avoid them!!!! [/quote] It's really not that easy - sometimes it's one small teammate dynamic in one particular age group. It's constantly in flux too so what might be a really bad situation this year, is totally different next year. [/quote] And for some the same coach is fantastic for portion of the team so then would just get bunch of debates on here if did[/quote] And that is the whole issue. Parents never complain because they are worried it'll be worse for their kid. A lot of clubs will bench a kid for parent complaining. The cycle continues. Then when a situation is so ridiculous you have to step in, then it looks like an isolated issue if no one else is complaining. The TD doesn't take it seriously because it looks like a you problem vs an actual mentally unstable coach with anger management issues. They get a this isn't the club culture we want to foster discussion, the coach ends up PO'd because it's obvious who complained, and then they are further targeted. The kid moves to another club so problem solved in TD eyes. This happens again and again at all of these clubs. None of them remember they are in the customer service business. The things they do to these kids will stay with them for the rest of their lives good or bad.[/quote]
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