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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All these "parents" calling OP fake, troll, horrible parent... clearly live in a bubble or are very entitled.

Why is it hard to believe a bratty DD is not capable of taking 4K from their parents? eye roll.

She knows her daughter better than anyone... I'm sure she has struggle with her for years... and continues to do so. [/quote]

OP, this sounds like another post from you.

It’s understandable that you’re upset. But if you gave your daughter permission to use that credit card before, including for rent or living expenses, and didn’t make it clear at some point that she was no longer allowed to use it, you’re not being clear or consistent enough with your daughter.

It sounds like she might be struggling with establishing consistency in her life, and in a panic, is misconstruing the level of help you’re willing to give, so try to be more consistent and clear with her. If she’s not allowed to use any funds from you, tell her that and cut off the card(s).

That said, at $3k/month, her rent likely exceeds her total salary—how was she approved to be on the lease? [/quote]

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