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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheating IS abuse. Throughout my exhusbands affair, he championed us having another baby. Which then caused me to take a job that was a step down to offset his promotion and the chaos of having two little kids. Then, surprise! He's been cheating. Oh, and it was workplace affair so he lost his job....and is still unemployed. So now I have two little kids and an $80k salary vs our $350k HHI.

Oh, and his AP stalked me and threatened my kids and I. I had to wipe myself from the internet as best as possible, get a restraining order, install home security system.

And SHE was also sleeping with other people during their affair. So I was pregnant and could have contracted who knows what because I was under the impression that I was having monogomous sex with my loving husband.

And then you get the pleasure of going back through your entire life for the last few years and rewritten what you thought you lived vs the reality. The family vacation with your two sandy salt-air curly haired babies? When you were giving them baths and pjs after the beach, he was having video sex in the airbnb bedroom. That 6 month period when he was staying up late "working" every night in the basement to land a big client so you were lovingly making him late night snacks, quietly getting up with the kids in the morning and letting him sleep in, regularly writing him little notes of encouragement about how much you admire his go-getter attitude and are happy to support him? But OH shoot, he was actually up all night on phone calls and having video sex while you soothed your babies back to bed upstairs. Or the Christmas your 4yo asked why Santa forgot a present for mommy when every one else was opening gifts but you shrugged it off due to his stressful work and then find out AP got a big box of gifts.

It goes on and and on. It's all trauma. I have been formally diagnosed with PTSD.[/quote]

You are definitely a victim [/quote]

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