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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My gosh, is this a sock puppet? Divorce does not always mess up the kids. I’m sure I would be a different person if my parents hadn’t divorced, and not for the better. It was so much more peaceful when they were apart, and my mom married someone who was very actively involved in my life, and I was able to see what a healthy, happy relationship was like. Obviously people should try to do everything they can to save their marriage, but it’s not always possible.[/quote]

You are an outlier. You must realize that, right? And no one said divorce is never ever justified, just that it should be a last resort. And a real last resort. Not just ‘oh I think I’d be happier’ or ‘dh did that thing that hurt me and I should divorce over that’. Divorce is recommended way too often on here. If you believe in marriage and commitment and take an oath to that effect, especially with children in the mix, you should be prepared to weather storms and imperfections. Humans are imperfect, they make mistakes, that’s what you’ve signed up for when you marry. Good and bad. Hopefully mostly good. [/quote]

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