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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think I have to disagree with almost everyone who’s commented so far. If you’re with a guy who you love in every way, except for hoping that he was a little more adventurous in bed, that sounds like something you could work on.  Or at the very least that you shouldn’t toss him to the curb just because it’s not exactly what you want right now. Long-term relationships are about commitment and compromise and growing, not about being right or wrong.  My spouse and I have been together nearly 30 years and while we were always attracted to each other and enjoyed sex m, it’s definitely been a journey together as we each have learned to be patient with the other when it comes to sex, not always expect to get what you want whenever you want it, but also to be willing to ask for what we need and to be open to trying things that might’ve seemed too risque or not risque enough. Sexual compatibility is lind of a misnomer- it is not an honor off switch or a black or white question. Everyone’s on a continuum and as long as you don’t feel like it’s abusive or that the person isn’t capable of ever meeting your needs, I would stick with it for now.  Be willing to share your feelings about sex with your partner without expecting him to change overnight, and just give it some time.  It’s a little too easy for anonymous people on this board to just blithely tell you to blow up your relationship.  But if you have an opportunity to have a life partner, and you think this guy might have potential, I don’t see why you can’t give it a little more of a chance.  [/quote]

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