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[quote=Anonymous]Don’t try to force friendships at this age. You shouldn’t have asked once let alone a couple times. It’s a disaster. These dynamics of one kid becomes more popular and ditches the other kid is so common and it’s very very easy to villainize the popular kid. I’ve done it myself. They are teenagers and they care about being popular and it matters to them even though we know it’s all kind of dumb and they’re going to make mistakes and not always handle it well. And sometimes the friend who got dumped doesn’t handle it well either. I guess my point is attempt to have some grace for all involved. As for what she said, it’s horrible enough that if she didn’t directly apologize it’s a friendship ender. For me, if it was a person who I valued and enjoyed and had been a good friend and I thought the statement was generally out of character and they owned a mistake, I’d move on. [/quote]
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