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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Extremely hard to vet a guy as a father when he's in his mid-20s. [/b]So it's a risk marrying someone then and delaying kids "while they mature." This is a recipe for spending 5-8 years with a man you are waiting to grow the heck up, and freaking out as you near 35 and still haven't had kids yet.

I've known women who did this and were divorced by 30 and in the exact same boat.

Another thing I've seen: men who marry in their 20s, don't grow up, wives divorce them in their mid-30s, then they freak out and realize they might end up along if they dont' shape up, wind up married with a kid within a couple years. And the kicker is that most of these men appear to be pretty doting husbands and fathers, because they know what went wrong with their first marriage and are working hard to avoid it so they don't wind up alone.

So the woman who married them early wound up teaching them major lessons about maturity, but then some other woman reaps the benefits. Sigh. [/quote]

I disagree with this, because you always have the most valuable data point at any age: what is his father like?[/quote]

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