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[quote=Anonymous]OP, how do you feel about the way you are being treated? Does it feel abusive to you? If so, the cause doesn’t matter. All that matters is boundaries. You can’t control your husband, but you can control your own reactions. I have liked the website Out of the FOG for its discussions of boundaries. While the website is designed for people in relationships with those who have personality disorders, the coaching on boundaries and how to better manage conflict is helpful for a lot of situations. Also, up on stages of change theory. Your husband’s behavior will only change if it’s a problem for him. You clearly have a big heart and a lot of love for your spouse. I hope you realize that you deserve the same love and empathy. You are the only person who can look out for yourself.[/quote]
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