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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I typed them into google and this is what I got:

“When your wife blames you for everything, it often indicates she is unhappy with the relationship, is unable or unwilling to take responsibility, or is using blame as a defense mechanism to protect her self-esteem. This behavior is a form of blame-shifting that can stem from deep-seated issues like insecurity, past experiences, or a need to feel in control. It can also be a sign of poor communication, emotional abuse, or a relationship that is in trouble”

“ Your husband may blame you for everything because he is deflecting from his own insecurities, stress, or unhappiness, or he is using it as a defense mechanism to avoid responsibility. It can also be a sign of deeper issues like narcissistic tendencies, poor communication skills, or an inability to manage his own emotions. In some cases, blame can be a form of emotional manipulation, also known as gaslighting.”

Overall pretty similar. You’re probably falling for selection bias, and only hearing the things you want to hear. [/quote]

Are you aware that you just posted an AI summary and not an actual human perspective. Try reading the reddit results for real human examples. I am talking about human perceptions and dynamics here.[/quote]

Yes, I am. The OP literally says “type it into google and see for yourself!” So I did.

Like I said. Selection bias. You said google it, google didn’t confirm your belief, so now you’re saying to seek out different websites that DO confirm your beliefs. Rather than taking an objective look at everything.

Like PP said, there are plenty of forums where the opposite is true. And there are plenty of people who do see nuance. You’re choosing to focus on what you want to hear. [/quote]

Nobody would have thought that it would have been necessary to make a disclaimer about the concept that human opinion is the topic being discussed here. You are just arguing nonsense because you know that this dynamic is a real thing. The overwhelming social temperature is as described. Reddit is a generalist forum and cannot be discredited by the mere existence of an extremist men’s forum. I can literally find any fringe opinion conceivable online somewhere but that doesn’t preclude the discussion of obviously dominant social dynamics. [/quote]

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