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[quote=Anonymous]OP, he likes who he is better, when not in the mix of this family of origin. The patterns we grew up with sometimes don't bring-out the self we like best. Our strongest self. The self we have worked hard to become. Maybe be feels marginalized, gets put in a role from his youth. It's just the way the personalities interact - not like any of you are doing anything wrong, necessarily. It's not like he's analyzed this and has a clear idea of what I just said, but when he has choices to make, he makes them in this direction. It's ok. You should respect his choices, not make his choices a topic of speculation with other family members. Work to meet-him in the areas of his present life - when he invites you in.[/quote]
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