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[quote=Anonymous]My DH is the opposite of many PPs'.  He likes it better when I'm about 15 lbs over where I like to be (have experienced this twice in recent history with the birth of my two kids).  When I complain about it, he tells me I'm being ridiculous.  When I watch what I eat and work out, he asks me if I'm planning to starve myself until I weigh nothing.  He'll comment on my weight loss like "you're shrinking to nothing!" rather than telling me he thinks I look better than before.  I focus on being healthy and worked hard to lose all the baby weight both times because I wasn't happy with how I looked or felt (not to mention the closet full of clothes I couldn't fit into!).  I think it's not so much that he wants me to be fat, but that he has struggled with his own weight and is insecure that I would still be happy with him if I looked fit and trim.  But I definitely would be, and I tell him that all the time.  On one hand I love that he will love me regardless of how I  look, but on the other hand sometimes it comes off as him being unsupportive.[/quote]

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