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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here. You putting on a few extra pounds doesn't bother me nearly as much as you going on about how unhappy it makes you and how you're going to diet. When you do this in front of our daughters, I get really upset. But I hold me tongue. So, it's not your physical appearance that bothers me but your attitude about it.[/quote] I am pretty sure this is my DH's attitude, too. My issues with my weight are not about my size at all, they are about feeling gross or out of control or whatever other stories our society (and my family) told about being fat. I have always been larger than many men would find attractive at 6 feet tall, so I don't doubt that DH loves me and finds me attractive. I do know that he dislikes seeing and hearing me beat myself up and would prefer (like a man ;) ) that I "just do something about it" if it's "really bothering me." Weight is easy to handle, the voices in the head, not so much.[/quote]
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