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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I met the [b]man of my dreams[/b] a few [b]weeks ago[/b] and [b]it’s been heaven.[/b] I’m happier than I’ve been in years, and even though it’s new, I could see myself marrying him (something I never thought I’d do).

However - we just can’t seem to get aligned sexually. We do have sex, and it’s fine, but there’s no real passion. It often feels mechanical and like we’re going through the motions. Like we’re just trying to get off as fast as possible. We do kiss and do foreplay, [b]but I just don’t feel any real passion behind it from him, which is killing my passion for him. [/b]

A couple things that may also be going on is that he’s very goofy overall, so when it comes to sex, I really never know if he’s going to do something like start talking in a silly voice (which is a huge turn off for me). The other is that before him, I dated a man I wasn’t compatible with but we had the most intense sex life, it was extremely primal and passionate.

I don’t want to lose a great guy, but I’m at a loss on what to do. It’s not just requesting specific acts; I can ask for XYZ and he’ll do it, but the *feeling* just isn’t there. [/quote]
He's the man of your dreams just weeks in? It's been heaven, but the sex is empty and rushed? Listen to yourself. None of what you're saying makes sense because you're lying to yourself. A goofy weirdo who goes through the motions only after you ask isn't the man of your dreams and sex that leaves you lonely isn't heaven. Have the courage to move on. [/quote]

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