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Reply to "Why the obsession over APs, spying and "catching" DH?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me, I needed hard proof to "allow" myself to start pulling my kids' lives in two. It's a horrible decision to have to make. I also needed to prove to myself that I wasn't crazy and did have an accurate grasp on reality when the person who was my best friend and partner for 15 years was all of a sudden gaslighting me into oblivion. It's a real mindfcxk.[/quote] Yeah, but the way to do this is trusted friends and therapy, not shitposting on the mommy board. I agree: it's a hard decision, especially when you've had a "partner" that wasn't, and was more of an antagonist than a support. Still, the moment you start getting ready to leave is the moment you decide to withdraw your energy from whatever your STBX is on and start focusing on yourself. Staying stuck in some "gotcha" game of trying to "prove" what a jerk they are and "catch" them is still investing energy in the dead relationship.[/quote]
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