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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I should tell our kids exactly what their dad has been doing[/quote] This calmly. In a sentence or two. Once. The truth. Contacting the GF, no. Absolutely no.[/quote] No. You don't actually know if he cheated or not, so don't say he did when you don't know. Be the grown up. Keep the kids out of it. "Your dad wanted something different. I don't fully understand it and to be honest I feel angry and betrayed that he left and seemed to start a new relationship so quickly." That is the absolute most you should say to your kids. Your DH's departure is hurting you. Don't spread the pain to your children.[/quote] Op should not explain what her husband is doing to their children. He should talk to his children about his actions. It’s not on op to explain or lie for her stbx. He’s an adult, he’s making his own decisions, he can talk to his kids.[/quote]
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