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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman in a similar situation - financially struggling (but because ex doesn’t pay adequate support and sometimes doesn’t pay at all).

The bottom line is that I don’t date, and I won’t date until I am in a better position financially.  First, any money I have to spend on dating needs to go to my kids. Second, any time and effort I would have for dating needs to be spent on my kids and on me getting in a better career position. I have a side gig (not driving Uber), and a side gig is not a long term solution.

You don’t mention what kind and how much custody you have. If you don’t have your kids 50/50 and don’t spend substantial quality time with your kids, that is a red flag for anyone you date.

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We have 50/50 week on week off. I work from home. I see her every day during the week I don't have my kids. She comes after work and we are together until 9 PM or so then I head out drive a bit come back..and then I leave again around 5 am.

It's fine. I don't have to date to be happy. I just thought she would understanding because she gets child support and her ex husband isn't exactly wealthy either. [/quote]

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