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[quote=Anonymous]I did stop hugging my BIL some years ago and it was seriously distressing to my ILs but it was something I had to do for myself. He was inappropriate and frequently made inappropriate comments to me that made me uncomfortable. Then once he was hugging me goodbye and (despite having never done this before in several years of knowing each other) gave me a kiss on the cheek that landed uncomfortably close to my lips. It was extremely uncomfortable and I stopped hugging him after that. I know it made people mad but sometimes you hit your limit and you need to draw a boundary. I actually think it was a wake up call to BIL to stop being so weird and inappropriate around me, and he's actually a little better now. I still don't hug him though.[/quote]
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