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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She doesn't. And I probably wouldn't like you either. You are very self focused.

Seriously you needed a same day phone call because you lost your job🙄

She probably only made you MOH  to please your parents and if I had to guess she's probably always had to play second fiddle to you and you have always been fussed over.

Her wedding is not about you.

It's not appropriate to have your navel gazing you don't like me fest.

Grow up.
It's not about you.[/quote]

nailed it. Sister has a fiance and a new life. It's hard to understand that from the outside.[/quote]

Exactly.  She doesn't need you anymore OP, sorry.

However, she shouldn't be playing games about the bachelorette party, because some people genuinely do not want them and would be upset if you went against their wishes.  [b]You shouldn't have to guess whether she was being truthful or not.  But now that you know it was a lie, hop to it and plan![/b][/quote]
Sounds like the sister already planned it with friends and just left OP out of it?

I think everyone is being a little harsh on OP. She says it has been this way for years and then said she would never bring this up to her sister because she knows her sister is wedding planning. I have to admit, I would be frustrated if I tried to plan something for my sister, she told me no, and then after the fact I found out she planned without me.[/quote]

I think it's insane people are accusing the OP of being a narcissist because she's sad she doesn't have a relationship with her sister.

If she's being completely honest with herself though, I do think there's something about this dynamic she's not revealing, and I'm curious what it is. Parents doted on her more growing up? Maybe slightly more attractive than sis? (Although if she admitted this, she'd be told to get over herself by DCUM users lol). [/quote]
OP here - I can't sleep and checked this thread and wow it has grown since I last stopped by lol.

I'm really not being opaque about our family dynamic, I promise! If anything, my sister was the baby so our parents doted on her more! She lives closer to them, so they visit each other frequently. And I genuinely think my sister and I are equally attractive; if anything people say we look alike, so it's not like one is a model and the other is a troll. [/quote]

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