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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 42 year old man, dating a woman who's 49. It's getting serious. I'm really into her. She takes care of herself, is in good shape, looks great, and has a high libido. (I think all the same applies to me). But I keep thinking about what will happen in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years. Will she suddenly age quickly, lose her libido, etc., while I'm still fit and active for an extended period? I know eventually I'll be old and have a lower libido, too, and then we'll probably be back in sync, but there will presumably be a lag -- potentially for many years. Have people been through this? How'd it work out? [/quote]
You can do better. Find a 35 year old woman. [/quote]

As a woman I left a man whose parents were always nagging him about me being 1 year older. It was the same - you can do better.

OP - if you value her, it’s your responsibility to create a safe space in your relationship from some comments and such thoughts in your head, and make her feel safe. Because that’s the main challenge for you, these thoughts swirling in your head.

The reason why PP male said this is because you can be happy, you can get it up with an older woman, you are able to connect to her. And he’s not able to get it up even with younger women. [/quote]

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