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[quote=Anonymous]OP, don’t let women here get you down. They don’t reflect reality for most women. I’m pretty hot (a solid 8) and dating a broke guy. I make several times more than him. And when I say broke, I mean he’s BROKE broke, like barely makes above minimum wage broke. But he has a fantastic personality, he’s extremely kind and attentive, incredible in bed, absolutely crazy about me, and fantastic body with a 6 pack (not necessary, but definitely helped in my case, I’m very attracted to fit men). The best advice I can give you is to communicate. Don’t pretend to have more money than you do. Be honest about where it goes. I would 100% rather a man be honest and openly communicate with me, than lie to me and try to pretend he’s something he’s not. Most women can be flexible on things like money, but you can’t overcome dishonesty. I’ve always found dinner dates extremely boring, so we do free/cheap things. If you’re in the DC area, there’s hundreds of options. I would rather go on a cheap or free date that I can tell a man put a lot of thought into and knew I would enjoy, than a fancy dinner. You sound like a great guy who wants what is best for his kids, and that’s a huge advantage for you. The only thing that would seriously give me pause in your situation is why you don’t have 50% custody. It’s not the money, it’s the “why did he decide to opt out of parenting”. [/quote]
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