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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Seems like you haven't grown up and still harbor unreasonable resentment. Your parents don't owe you a perfect childhood and a perfect marriage. Even if you believe neither was a good parent, you need to let go of the fact that he's ever going to acknowledge that. Now he's in decline. Yes, we're all going to get like this, OP. Even you. Compartmentalization is key. Deal with the immediate practical problems, and try not to think about who this person really is. Help as little or as much as you want. No one's winning any medals over this. Only you can determine what you're ready to give. But don't make the mistake of thinking that your kids won't resent you when you're old and decrepit and need their help! You're just another flawed human, and not likely to get any better. [/quote] I know my kids are going to resent me. Unless of course I stay useful and die before getting crazy and needy. [/quote]
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