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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am very YOLO so the 4 weeks does not affect me in the least.  If I could get tickets and was able to make it work, I'd go and I'd work hard to make it work.  What it looks like to me after reading all of the posts is that your issue is not missing the dinner with your kids because it's so hard to get them together.  [b]The counter side to that is that your husband's family is probably feeling the same as you - that this is an extremely rare opportunity to get their family together. [/b] And, you don't discuss why FIL is in a care home, but there certainly are less opportunities for them than in your family's life.  Given that you all are really family focused, I think you and your DH will regret not going to the wedding.  And, because of that, I'd go in your shoes.

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This. Four weeks notice is unreasonable, but do you not see that their reason is the same as your reason?

Stop making it about your dinner reservation, that's going to sound deranged. It's about how you so rarely have all your kids in one place, not about the restaurant. [/quote]

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